Babies come from Bangkok! We hope.
After a whirlwind of emotions, we set off for Bangkok on Tuesday night. By the time we boarded, we were both pretty much done with everything – we spent the flight basking in the emotional turmoil of gloriously bad ABC family dramas. Perfect.
Of course, I break that sweet, television-induced sedation by spending the rest of our evening scouring academic articles for everything known about IUI, trigger shot-to-ovulation timing, and whether 24 hrs vs. 30 hrs vs. 36 hrs matters at all. Confirmation bias abounds. Everything will be okay.
Bright and early Wednesday, we headed to our clinic, which turned out to be about 300% more swanky than we expected. We huddled in our padded furniture pod alongside 30+ other families and waited to meet with the doctor. Despite everyone’s disappointment that I had not done things “properly,” the doctor (and her army of ultrasound technicians) seemed reasonably optimistic.
We broke for lunch, I tried not to eat too much street food (so hard!), and reconvened in the afternoon. We donned our baby-making costumes – sexy sterile crocs and hospital caps and gowns for both of us.
After prepping very, very slowly, to help delay the insemination time as much as possible, it was time to make some babies. The doctor brought out our washed, processed, and ready for action sperm, which came in a lovely shade of pink. I got all situated, and then the team got to work.
I was more than a bit nervous because most experiences I’ve had with doctors poking my insides have been negative. I researched other folks’ IUI experiences, which, of course, were all over the place. Usually, the range was from “didn’t notice” to “it was uncomfortable.” So I shouldn’t worry? Wrong. Always beware the use of “uncomfortable” in a medical setting.
In non-medical settings, the phrase “uncomfortable” refers to anything from a chair with insufficient padding to an awkward social situation. Maybe the over-full feeling you get after too much pizza. Uncomfortable. In medical land, “uncomfortable” is everything short of getting your arm cut off or passing a kidney stone. It’s more like how spraining your wrist is “uncomfortable” or getting a bronchoscopy is “uncomfortable.” HA. It is “bad.” Simply bad.
Despite the “uncomfortable” nature of the procedure, of course, I was a champ. That is, if by “champ,” you mean that I hyperventilated, experienced an extreme blood pressure drop, and nearly passed out. I went through those smelling salts like a champ, that’s for sure. Aced it.
Then it was over. I rested for an hour with my book, leaning on my right side as I was told to to help direct the little swimmers toward the good egg (still waiting for an academic paper on that) then we headed out for lunch and a relaxing evening.
And now we wait.